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  从分手理由就可以看出人们在乎什么。

  ❶ Ta性格太差劲了,我说什么Ta都跟我杠,拒绝沟通,不分手留着过年?

  ❷ 谈之前不知道,相处起来才发现智力上有鸿沟,考虑问题不在一个层面……

  ❸ 可能是收入有差别吧,我俩消费观念相差太大……

  但处对象可能又和找对象不是一回事。找的时候看脸,处起来又看性格。似乎,这是一个综合决策过程。

  What do you look for in a partner? It seems like an easy question, but if you're asked to break down what it is that attracts you to someone else, you might struggle to put your finger on it.

  你找对象时看中什么?看似是个简单的问题,但要是叫你掰开来说道说道,你可能会犯难。

  传统的主流观点认为男性在寻找伴侣时比较看中的是外在条件,女性则比较倾向于非外在的部分。来自德国哥廷根大学的研究者们与经期追踪软件提供商一道,开展了一项针对来自180个国家的68000名女性的研究。

  Dr. Tanja Gerlach, from the University of Göttingen, said: “the survey is unique in that women from all over the world—across various sexual orientations and life phases—gave us rich insight into what matters most to them. This allows us to draw a very differentiated picture of women's preferences for long-term, and short-term relationships.”

  来自哥廷根大学的Gerlach博士表示:“这项研究的独特之处在于我们研究了世界各地,各个年龄阶段,各种性取向的女性的择偶要求。我们由此可以看到长远也好短期也罢的恋爱关系中女性的择偶偏好。”

  研究发现:

  ❶ "Kindness" was the most important trait, with nearly 90 percent of women thinking it was a top priority.

  “善良体贴”是最重要的特质,几乎90%的女性都把它排在了第一位。

  ❷ Attractiveness was important, but it came secondary to personality traits like "supportiveness" and "intelligence."

  外在条件的确很重要,但是并没有“会支持鼓励人”以及“智力”这类特质重要。

  ❸ When asked about choosing a long-term mate, 46.1 percent of women of all sexual orientations said that a potential partner's desire to parent is very important.

  当问及长期恋爱关系时,46.1%的受访者,无论取向如何,都表示希望对方也会要小孩。

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