心理趣闻：六招教你看出恋人是否要出轨

　　1. They’re self-absorbed: Most cheaters tend to be narcissists or at least share many similar qualities. If your other half is self-absorbed and lacks empathy, then he or she is more likely to cheat as the attention and admiration they will get from a new love interest will be more important than your feelings and needs.

　　他们自以为是：大多数出轨者往往是自恋狂或者至少有很多类似的品质。如果你的另一半既自私又缺乏同情心，那么他或她很可能就会出轨，因为他们从新恋情中得到的关注和赞美比你的感受和需求更为重要。

　　2. They’re insecure: Insecurity is also a common trait of cheaters. Unfortunately their need to feel loved and have their other half’s constant attention can be what leads them to cheat. They are scared that they are not good enough or that they will end up alone, which is why they will try and have a back-up plan.

　　他们没有安全感：缺乏安全感也是出轨者的一个共同点。不幸的是，他们需要感受被爱，需要另一半给予持续的关心，这也将导致他们的出轨行为。他们害怕自己不够好或者孤独终老，这也是他们尝试并计划一个备胎的原因。

　　3. They are greedy: People who are more likely to cheat always seem to think that the grass is greener on the other side, which is why they might end up exploring other options in their attempt to ‘strike a better deal’ for themselves.

　　他们是贪婪的：很可能去欺骗感情的人似乎总是这山望着那山高，这也是他们试图为自己找到一个更好恋情并可能最终试探其它可选对象的原因。

　　4. They accuse you of cheating: Because they have the urge to cheat, they will think you are the same and will get paranoid whenever you look at someone else or give someone a compliment.What your man sees in you, can only be a reflection of his own thoughts, behaviours and actions. Honest, reliable men never doubt you, because they do not doubt themselves.

　　他们总是指责你在出轨：因为他们有出轨的冲动，他们认为你也一样并且无论何时你看别人或给别人赞美时总是会疑神疑鬼。你的他怎么看你，只能反映他自己的想法、行为和行动。老师说，可靠的男人从不怀疑你，因为他们不怀疑自己。

　　5. They are flirts: Cheaters often flirt with everyone, even when you are together. This feeling desired can eventually lead them to cheat on you.

　　他们爱调情：甚至你们在一起时，出轨者也经常和别人调情。这种情感需求最终会导致他们对你不忠。

　　6. They are deceptive: If you’ve caught them lying before, then you need to be careful as this indicates the extent of their moral code. Not all liars are cheaters but cheaters are always liars.

　　他们是虚伪的：如果你之前抓到过他们撒谎，那你现在就要小心了因为这表明了他们的道德准则的程度。不是所有说谎的人都是出轨者，但出轨者总是爱说谎。